نشریه انجمن علمی روانشناسی ایران

نویسندگان

دانشگاه شهید چمران اهواز

چکیده

: ناکامی زوج­ها در حل اختلافات زناشویی ممکن است به اشکال گوناگونی بروز پیدا کند که هرکدام به نوبه خود می­تواند سلامت روابط زناشویی را به خطر بیندازد. یکی از انواع بروز اختلافات زناشویی، پدیده دلزدگی است که زوج­های بسیاری را درگیر خود می­کند و از عوامل بسیاری از جمله تمایزیافتگی، نورزگرایی، بخشندگی و تعارض زناشویی تاثیر می­پذیرد. هدف پژوهش حاضر آزمون الگوی رابطه علّی تمایزیافتگی، نورزگرایی و بخشندگی با دلزدگی زناشویی از طریق واسطه­گری تعارض زناشویی بود. به این منظور نمونه­ای 300 نفری از معلمان مرد متاهل مقاطع ابتدایی، راهنمایی و متوسطه مدارس شهر استهبان در این پژوهش شرکت کردند. از شرکت­کنندگان خواسته شد به مقیاس دلزدگی زناشویی (MDS)، پرسشنامه تجدیدنظر شده تمایزیافتگی خود (DSI-R)، زیرمقیاس نورزگرایی پرسشنامه پنج عاملی شخصیت نئو (NEO-FFI)، مقیاس بخشش (FS) و پرسشنامه تعارضات زناشویی (MCQ-R) پاسخ دهند. نتایج نشان داد که در کل نمونه، تمامی ضرایب مسیر بین متغیرها، از لحاظ آماری معنادار بودند. به­علاوه مسیرهای مستقیم تمایزیافتگی، نورزگرایی، بخشندگی و تعارض زناشویی به دلزدگی زناشویی، و هم­چنین مسیرهای مستقیم تمایزیافتگی، نورزگرایی و بخشندگی به تعارض زناشویی نیز معنا­دار بودند. از سوی دیگر، طبق نتایج پژوهش، رابطه غیرمستقیم تمایزیافتگی، نورزگرایی و بخشندگی با دلزدگی زناشویی از طریق تعارض زناشویی نیز معنادار به دست آمدند. به­نظر می­رسد دلزدگی زناشویی پدیده پیچیده­ای است که ضمن درگیر کردن بسیاری از زوج­ها، از عوامل بسیاری از جمله تمایزیافتگی، نورزگرایی، بخشودگی و تعارض زناشویی تاثیر می­پذیرد.

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عنوان مقاله [English]

The causal relationship of differentiation, neuroticism, and forgiveness with marital disaffection through mediation of marital conflict

نویسندگان [English]

  • Seyed Ehsan Sadati
  • Mahnaz Mehrabizadeh Honarmand
  • Mansour Soodani

چکیده [English]

The failure of couples in resolving marital problems could be expressed in various forms so that each of them can be a threat to the health of marital relationship. One of the causes of marital disputes is disaffection which is common in many couples and is influenced by many factors including differentiation, neuroticism, forgiveness and martial conflict. The purpose of this study was to examine the causal relationship between differentiation, neuroticism and forgiveness and marital disaffection by mediation of marital conflict. For this purpose, a sample of 300 married male teachers in elementary, middle and high schools of Estahban participated in this study. Participants were asked to respond to the Marital Disaffection Scale (MDS), the Revised Differentiation of Self Questionnaire (DSI-R), the Neuroticism of NEO Five-Factor Personality Inventory (NEO-FFI), the Forgiveness Scale (FS) and Sanai’s Revised Marital Conflicts Questionnaire (MCQ-R). The results showed that all coefficients of the path between variants were statistically significant. Moreover, the direct paths of differentiation, neuroticism, forgiveness and marital conflict to marital disaffection were statistically significant. The direct paths of differentiation, neuroticism and forgiveness to marital conflict were significant as well. Also, the results of this study revealed that the indirect relationship between differentiation, neuroticism and forgiveness and marital disaffection was also significant through marital conflict. It seems that marital disaffection is a complex phenomenon which is influenced by various factors such as differentiation, neuroticism, forgiveness and martial conflict.

کلیدواژه‌ها [English]

  • Differentiation
  • Neuroticism
  • forgiveness
  • disaffection
  • marital conflict
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